Teaching Our Kids to Empathize
In the past couple of parshas we read about Moshe, Aaron and Miriam caring for one another and working together. It is a beautiful example of what siblings can do if...
Jan 20, 2015
By Adina Soclof
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Parenting as a Team
Dear Adina, I am trying to incorporate some of the new parenting skills but my husband undermines me. He is not on board at all. I find it very frustrating and I get...
Jan 7, 2015
By Adina Soclof
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The Older Sister Blues
A recent letter I received: I have two daughters very close in age, about a year a part. The younger one, Sara, adores her older sister and copies everything she does—her hair, her...
Dec 31, 2014
By Adina Soclof
Disciplining Kids: When Our Child’s Bad Behavior Is Really...
I am not sure why but we often put a negative spin on our children’s behavior. One such example always come to mind: the child who throws their food or toys...
Dec 25, 2014
By Adina Soclof
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Leading by Example: Teaching Kids to be Thankful
Thanksgiving is here. Gratefulness is very much a Jewish trait. Jew in Hebrew is yehudi, which comes from the Hebrew word lehodot, which means to thank. A Jew starts their day...
Nov 24, 2014
By Adina Soclof
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Sibling Rivalry: Teaching Kids to Respect One Another
This week’s parsha brings to light a recurring theme in Sefer Bereshit—sibling rivalry. We have seen it before with Kayin and Hevel, Yitzchak and Yishmael and now again with Yaakov and...
Nov 18, 2014
By Adina Soclof
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The Growth Mindset: Praising Kids for Success
When I first read Faber and Mazlish’s book, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen, I found the chapter on praise to be eye-opening. The authors cautioned parents to stop using evaluative praise...
Nov 10, 2014
By Adina Soclof
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Managing Your Defiant Child
I know that when my children become defiant, my initial reaction is to lash out at them and get really angry. “How dare they!” I think. “After all I do for...
Nov 5, 2014
By Adina Soclof
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How Can Parents Improve their Kid Communication?
In Parshat Lech Lecha, G-d tells Avraham to “Go from your land, from your birthplace and from your father’s house, to the land which I will show you.” Rashi says on...
Oct 27, 2014
By Adina Soclof
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Kids and Parents: Lost in Translation
In Parshat Noach, the Torah relates the story of Migdal Bavel. The sons of Noach decide to build a tower that will reach the heavens so they can defy G-d. As...
Oct 21, 2014
By Adina Soclof
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