Women’s Chevra Kadisha Leadership Conference

A Gathering of Chizuk, Networking, Learning
for Leaders of Chevros Kadisha

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Monday, May 12th, 2025

at OU Headquarters, 40 Rector Street, Lower Manhattan
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Join us for an Immersive Day of
Learning, Inspiration and Meaningful Connections

Gather with other dedicated women involved in the sacred work of Chevra Kadisha and gain valuable insights from rabbonim, lay leaders and professionals. 

Through engaging sessions and discussions, you’ll leave feeling energized, empowered, and strengthened in your avodas hakodesh.

Who Should Attend & Why?

This conference is designed to provide chizuk, inspiration, networking, and learning opportunities for women who hold leadership roles within their Chevra Kadisha.

Participants will gain

 Practical Guidance from Leading Experts Practical Guidance from Leading Experts
Tools to Strengthen their Chevra Kadisha and Enhance Kavod Hameis Tools to Strengthen their Chevra Kadisha and Enhance Kavod Hameis
A Network of Incredible Women Committed to This Precious Mitzvah A Network of Incredible Women Committed to This Precious Mitzvah
 Renewed Dedication and Motivation to Continue Their Sacred Work Renewed Dedication and Motivation to Continue Their Sacred Work
This conference is intended for female leaders and active members of Chevros Kadisha listed in the NASCK directory. If your Chevra Kadisha is not yet listed, please visit Register Your Chevra to explore inclusion - there is no cost associated with being added.

Conference Committee & Speakers

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Rabbi Ezra Sarna Director of Torah & Halacha Initiatives, OU Meet the Speaker
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Rabbi Ezra Sarna Director of Torah & Halacha Initiatives, OU

As Director of Halacha Initiatives, Rabbi Sarna works to solve halachic challenges that face North American Jewry and support smaller organizations in their work to enhance halacha observance. He is currently involved in creating new systems, technology and partnerships that will affect various areas of halacha and his door is always open for new ideas that could benefit Mitzvah observance. 

Prior to joining the OU, he served for 4 years as communal Rabbi in Dallas and subsequently for 3 years as Head of School in Houston. Originally from Montreal, Rabbi Sarna is a musmach of Yeshivas Ner Yisrael of Baltimore.

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Yael Davidowitz MSN Director of Outreach and Project Last Kindness, NASCK Meet the Speaker
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Yael Davidowitz MSN Director of Outreach and Project Last Kindness, NASCK

Yael Davidowitz is a passionate educator who developed the Last Kindness project in response to the alarming 50% cremation rate among American Jews. Last Kindness provides meaningful education on the beauty, value, and significance of Jewish burial and afterlife care.

Before joining NASCK full-time in 2021, Yael, a Columbia University-trained nurse, worked as an adult-geriatric nurse practitioner. She has also volunteered with her local Chevra Kadisha for nearly two decades.

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Rina Hirsch MA Program Administrator of Torah Initiatives, OU Meet the Speaker
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Rina Hirsch MA Program Administrator of Torah Initiatives, OU

Rina Hirsch is a Program Administrator at the Orthodox Union, where she plays a key role in organizing programs within the Torah and Halacha Initiatives departments, including the All Torah apps.

With over 20 years of experience in both formal and informal education, Rina brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to her role. She holds a Master’s degree in Theatre and enjoys incorporating her theatrical background into her educational approach.

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Danya Miller Director of Operations, Jewish Sacred Society Chevra Kadisha of Chicago Meet the Speaker
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Danya Miller Director of Operations, Jewish Sacred Society Chevra Kadisha of Chicago

Danya, originally from Milwaukee, WI, has been an administrator for the Jewish Sacred Society Chevra Kadisha of Chicago for over 20 years and an active volunteer for the last eight. Over time, her role has grown into a leadership position, where she now oversees innovative outreach initiatives, including educational programming, advertising, and increasing awareness within the broader Jewish community.

Growing up, “Chevra Kadisha” was a household term, as both of her parents were dedicated members. While she may not have fully understood the work they were doing at the time, she always recognized its immense significance. Today, she is passionate about spreading awareness of the importance of caring for the deceased with the utmost respect, in accordance with Torah values. Danya credits her mother as a source of inspiration and dedication in her commitment to this sacred mitzvah.

Beyond her work with the Chevra Kadisha, Danya is deeply involved in chesed organizations across Chicagoland, including Chai Lifeline, United Bikur Cholim, and Partners in Torah, devoting much of her time to supporting those in need. She is a devoted akeres habayis, strengthening her home and community through Torah values.

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Devorah Grayson President, Women’s Chevra Kadisha of Greater Washington Meet the Speaker
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Devorah Grayson President, Women’s Chevra Kadisha of Greater Washington

I was born and raised in Silver Spring, Maryland, where I still live with my husband of 30 years, Dean Grayson. Dean is the President of the Men’s Chevra Kadisha, and some of our five children are involved in Chevra Kadisha as well.

Before having children, I worked as a marketing manager in telecom, handling new product rollouts. But the moment I held my first daughter, I looked at my husband and said, “I’m quitting my job.” And I never looked back. While I haven’t worked for pay since then, I’ve kept busy volunteering for Bikur Cholim and Yad Yehuda, a local organization that provides food, clothing, financial assistance, and other support to those going through difficult times.

My involvement with the Chevra Kadisha started back in high school. At the time, it was a struggle to find women willing to do taharas on Erev Yom Tov, so the Chevra Kadisha came up with a solution—forming a junior league, pairing an adult leader with teenage team members. That was my unusual entry into Chevra Kadisha. I later served as treasurer for 10 years before stepping into the role of President—20 years ago.

Today, our Chevra Kadisha is well-staffed and serves the Greater Washington area, including Maryland, Virginia, and Washington, D.C., providing taharas in nine different funeral homes. One of the things I love most about this work is that you’re always learning—whether it’s understanding how another Chevra operates, navigating family customs, gaining insight and direction from poskim, or finding creative solutions when a funeral home doesn’t have what we need. And just when you think you’ve seen it all, something new comes your way!

The funds our Chevra receives are all directed to tzedakah. It’s an amazing feeling to be able to help a family afford a proper burial when they don’t have the funds or even prevent a cremation by stepping in to cover some of the costs. We also use these funds to support local charities that do so much for our community—all in the merit of the people we’ve prepared for burial.

Being part of the Chevra Kadisha is deeply meaningful. It’s a privilege to do this work, and I’m profoundly grateful for the opportunity.

Guest Presenters

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Rabbi Elchonon Zohn Founder & President, NASCK Meet the Speaker
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Rabbi Elchonon Zohn Founder & President, NASCK

Rabbi Zohn is a world-renowned halachic expert in afterlife care. His extensive knowledge and experience make him a trusted advisor to rabbonim, chevros kadisha, crisis management organizations, and funeral and cemetery directors worldwide, ensuring the highest levels of kavod hameis

In 1997, he founded NASCK – the National Association of Chevros Kadisha – which today supports over 200 chevros kadisha throughout the world. Rabbi Zohn also serves as the director of the Chevra Kadisha of the Vaad Harabonim of Queens, where he has dedicated over four decades to assisting the greater Jewish community of Queens and Long Island.

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Rabbi Moshe Hauer Executive Vice President, OU Meet the Speaker
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Rabbi Moshe Hauer Executive Vice President, OU

Rabbi Moshe Hauer has served the Orthodox Union (OU) as its Executive Vice President since 2020. In this role he serves as the organization’s rabbinic leader, heading its communal-oriented efforts and serving as its professional religious/policy leader and primary spokesman.

 Prior to joining the OU, Rabbi Hauer served as the senior Rabbi of the Bnai Jacob Shaarei Zion Congregation in Baltimore, MD for 26 years. He received his rabbinic ordination and doctor of Talmudic law from Ner Israel Rabbinical College in Baltimore and received his master’s of science from John Hopkins University.

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Zahava Farbman MSW Crisis, Trauma and Bereavement Specialist Meet the Speaker
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Zahava Farbman MSW Crisis, Trauma and Bereavement Specialist

Zahava Farbman, MSW is a veteran crisis intervention, trauma, and bereavement specialist with nearly 30 years of experience guiding individuals, families, and communities through crises and tragedies.

A widely recognized expert in crisis response within the Jewish community, Zahava has spoken nationally and internationally, providing critical support in times of need. She dedicated 25 years to Chai Lifeline, first as Associate Director of Camp Simcha and later as a director of Project Chai, the organization’s crisis intervention department.

Now working independently, Zahava continues her commitment as the Mental Health Responder for Hatzolah of the Five Towns and Far Rockaway, a consultant for other Hatzolah branches, and a Crisis Consultant for The Aleph Institute, supporting Jewish inmates and their families.

From 2018 to 2025, she was the founder and voice of Soul Sisters, a widely distributed daily message offering chizuk and inspiration through Torah wisdom, psychology, and her personal and professional experiences. These messages remain accessible on Yeshiva Ateres Shimon’s website.

Zahava can be reached at ZahavaFarbman@gmail.com

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Dena (Goldfinger) Hochberg Personal Trainer Meet the Speaker
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Dena (Goldfinger) Hochberg Personal Trainer

Dena is a certified personal trainer with over 20 years of experience. She helps clients of all ages and fitness levels, specializing in strength training, core development, and improving mobility and flexibility, including post-rehab conditioning.

Dena is particularly passionate about empowering women to recognize their full strength and muscle-building potential. She also has extensive experience in pre- and postnatal fitness, guiding women through safe and effective training before, during, and after pregnancy. Additionally, she provides science-based nutritional guidance, helping women develop sustainable strategies to achieve their health and wellness goals.

Dena’s appreciation for the chevra kadisha began with her mother’s dedication to this mitzvah. Today, she carries that legacy forward by helping chevra members develop the strength and mobility needed to perform tahara with care and ease.

Dena can be reached at denagoldfinger@gmail.com

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Susi Bernath Rosh, Chevra Kadisha of Monsey & New Square Meet the Speaker
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Susi Bernath Rosh, Chevra Kadisha of Monsey & New Square

I have been a member of the Chevra Kadisha of Rockland County under the leadership of Rabbi Ephraim Pessin for approximately 25 years.

I am married, blessed with five children, several grandchildren, and great grandchildren B”AH. Originally from Melbourne Australia, I moved to the United States in 1977.  Soon after our arrival, we settled in Monsey, where we still reside.

I work as an office manager in my husband’s CPA firm, Bernath & Rosenberg.  Since my husband is one of the firm’s founding partners, I have the flexibility to respond to Rabbi Pessin’s calls to perform a tahara at almost any time – whether in the middle of the work day, early morning or afternoon. Additionally, Rabbi Bayer, Director of the Chevra Kadisha in New Square, often calls our Chevra to do taharas for the New Square Chevra Kadisha. 

I am deeply grateful to Rabbi Pessin and Rabbi Bayer for giving me the opportunity to be involved in this special mitzvah. I ask Hashem for continued good health, strength and the ability to continue doing taharas in accordance with Halacha and with the proper kavod hameis.

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Tovah Kirschner Women’s Coordinator, Chervra Kadisha of Cinncinnati Meet the Speaker
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Tovah Kirschner Women’s Coordinator, Chervra Kadisha of Cinncinnati

Tovah (Michelle) Kirschner served as the President of the Cincinnati Chevra Kadisha from 1994 until 2024. She is currently the President Elect, Head of the women’s division and Secretary for NASCK.  

Tovah is a nurse practitioner that has experience in the ICU, cardiology, interventional pulmonology and oncology supportive care.  She is currently the Director of Program Development for the Cancer Survivorship Provider Network (CSPN), an online community that provides supportive care education, resources and mentorship to oncology professionals and cancer programs throughout the US and internationally.

Tovah brings her medical experience to lead the complex tahara team and fields questions on device removal and other challenges.  She collaborated with Rabbi Zohn to map the taharah process and create a comprehensive tahara manual for Cincinnati when she first became the Chevra President.  She continues to innovate to meet the needs of the community.

Tentative Schedule (Subject to Change)

8:45 am - 9:30 am
Registration

Light refreshments and coffee available

9:30 am - 10:10 am
Opening Keynote
  • Welcome: Rabbi Ezra Sarna
  • Keynote Address: Rabbi Elchonon Zohn
10:15 am - 11:00 am
Sacred Duty, Safe Practice: Preventing Injury During Tahara

Addressing Proper Body Mechanics and Lifting Techniques

11:00 am - 11:15 am
Coffee Break
11:15 am - 12:10 pm
From Recruitment to Retirement and Everything in Between

A Panel Discussion on Managing Chevra Kadisha Operations

12:15 pm - 1:25 pm
Lunch & Shared Wisdom: Voices from the Chevra Kadisha
1:30 pm - 2:15 pm
When Chesed Feels Heavy: Navigating Difficult Taharos with Emotional Resilience

Managing Trauma and Maintaining Well-Being in Chevra Kadisha Work

2:15 pm - 2:25 PM
Group Picture
2:25 pm - 2:55 pm
Mincha, Coffee & Networking Break
3 pm - 3:45 pm
From Hidden to Heard: Why Chevros Kadisha Should Engage in Outreach

Introducing Project Last Kindness and Expanding Public Awareness

3:50 pm - 4:35 pm
Collective Experience: Tips, Tricks and the Best Chevra Kadisha Hacks

From Gel Nail Polish to Managing Odors – Practical Solutions for Challenging Situations

4:35 pm - 4:50 pm
Break
4:55 pm - 5:25 PM
Strength, Purpose, and the Road Ahead
5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Dinner and Closing Remarks

Application - Apply by April 27th

Spots are limited, and we strive to include a diverse representation of Chevros Kadisha.
All applications will be carefully reviewed, and you will receive an email confirmation once your application has been processed.
If accepted, you will receive a payment link to complete your registration. Deadline to Apply: April 27th.

Cost

The conference fee has been subsidized to $125, which includes lunch and dinner.
We encourage Chevros Kadisha to cover the conference, travel, and lodging costs as an investment in their leaders - an investment that will ultimately strengthen and benefit their Chevra Kadisha.

Questions? Contact Us!

Have questions or need assistance? We’re here to help!
Use the contact form below or email hirschr@ou.org.
A member of our team will respond to you as promptly as possible.

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Venue & Travel Information
location
OU Headquarters

40 Rector Street, New York, NY 10006
Check-in is located at the front desk in the lobby.
Our offices are on the 4th floor. 

The nearest parking garage is Battery Parking Garage at 70 Greenwich Street, New York, NY 10006.

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Public Transit

For public transit, the closest subway stops are:
Rector Street (1 train)
Rector Street (R or W trains)
Wall Street (4 or 5 trains)

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